24(f) I’m done being single

I’m sick of being single and I have tried dating apps, going out, etc. None of the men were for me. I started to think I was the problem. I’m at a point in life where I don’t want to sleep around or sneaky link, however that’s what most of these guys wanted. I want something real, committed, and monogamous. I want someone I can marry, build with, have children with. I’m at a loss, should I just stay single or try new methods. And what are these methods. All advice is welcome.