Slow replies from a guy that used to be interested in me.

Hi, I’m looking for a bit of advice here, forgive me if it’s a really boring situation.

I (F21) and this guy I know irl matched on bumble the other day. He kind of left me hanging there so I texted him on instagram to get a conversation going, I figured he might just not be very active there . He seemed enthusiastic at first but he’s been extremely slow with his replies, like one per day. I know for a fact he’s been very busy with work …but still? Replying takes 5 seconds.

I would just figure he’s not interested in me but what bugs me is that we used to go to the same clubs a lot and there he always seemed to really like me, he even slept over without anything sexual ever happening, just bc we hit it off so well. I don’t want to be obnoxious and bug him too much and I’ll take my loss if he just doesn’t like me anymore, but then why did he match me? I feel like I already overstepped a line with messaging him on instagram while being ignored on bumble.