ADVICE FOR INDEPENDENT WOMEN ??

Recently joined the dating apps as i’ve been single for a few months now. I am 30F, no kids, great career, BS degree, own place, own car etc. I honestly don’t know if I have my expectations too high, but it is damn near IMPOSSIBLE for me to find someone who is.. equally yolked. As in, taking care of themselves financially, no kids, having their own place etc. A lot of men my age in CA either have multiple kids and BM’s, no job, no car, or check every other box besides having their own place.

I’ve worked really hard to provide the comfortable little life that I created for myself, and feel like it just attracts bums and losers like moths to a flame. Ex: I no longer share certain details when first meeting guys because their eyes light up when I say that I live alone.

Any advice for my dating profile? I am fighting the urge to just start listing off my expectations. I am not expecting a billionaire, but I would like to find a man that is AT LEAST my equal.