Ex broke up with me but acts like I broke up with her? 30M and 24F.

My 24F gf broke up with me about a month ago because she said “something felt missing” but she didn’t know what. It came to a surprise to me but I accepted and was chill about it. In my experience begging or getting all upset never helps. I mean, I hurt of course but I handle that privately. Initially it felt like a cordial break up but then things started to get weird.

I suggest no contact in which she initially agreed but kept trying to contact me. When I ignored her texts she put a picture on our Spotify playlist saying she missed me. Then I confront her about it and she acts all innocent like it’s in my head. Then I am like fine then let’s just please continue no contact. I start to delete pictures we had together and a long distance app we used to share. Again she texts me again saying “ouch that hurt” and wondering why. It’s like she’s playing the victim card like I was the bad guy or she is regretting things. Im not sure what type of game she is playing. Can anyone relate?