So, for the record, I have been on two lovely dates (one last night) with a guy who I find insanely attractive. He text me this morning, saying “had a lovely time. Thanks for organising”. I then replied asking if he’d like me to show him around my city more and while he didn’t explicitly say yes, he just simply responded “I’m excited to see more of the city 🙂 our date is a wonderful memory “ no follow up questions, no “I’m free this night.” I notice changed his dating profile overnight too. His polite but basic response reads to me as slight disinterest. Should I just be wildly explicit about how much I am into him? Or will that freak him out? He’s honestly the most attractive guy I’ve dated in a really long time and I think our values align. He wants a wife, I want a husband, we’re both attractive intelligent people who have experience of dating in very long term relationships. He described out date yesterday as “easily the best date he’s ever been on” (?) I need advice! Do men like it when women lay it out on the line or should I go against my values / gut and play it cool but potentially let it fizzle out.
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