Guys, stop trying to be perfect. Make her feel something

Too many dudes out here acting like job applicants instead of someone she actually wants to vibe with.

Y’all overthink the “perfect time” to kiss, the “perfect way” to ask her out, or when to make things official. But here’s the truth:

If she’s not feeling anything around you, tension, curiosity, excitement, even butterflies, it’s already game over.

Most guys are so focused on being respectful, safe, and nice… that they end up boring her into the friendzone. She doesn’t need another polite coworker, she wants a man who makes her heart race.

Also, stop rushing into “what are we?” mode after 4-8 weeks. Let her bring it up. Your job is to keep things fun, light, and real until she shows you she’s invested.

And when it comes to the kiss? Don’t ask. Don’t wait. Just read the moment. If the eye contact’s there, the pause is lingering, and she’s close, go for it. The hesitation kills it faster than the rejection ever will.

Make her feel something. That’s the game.