Hey everyone, I’m 22F and I’ve been talking to this guy, 27M, for a couple weeks now. We went on a first date that went really well. Afterward, I definitely liked him and we kept talking. I saw some dating advice that said it’s better to see each other once a week and not text constantly to avoid creating false intimacy, so that’s what I’ve been trying to do.
Anyway, he’s a really busy guy. He does coaching and has a full time job. All week, we had plans to see each other on Friday and I’d been really looking forward to it. Today, nearing the time of our “date”, I reached out like, “Not you flaking on me 😂” and he replied, “Sorry I’m still at practice coaching.” I never responded because I felt annoyed.
I can’t tell if I’m overreacting, but I feel like if he really wanted to see me, he would’ve figured it out or at least sent a heads-up that the date might not happen. We planned this on Monday. He couldn’t even send a quick update?
I feel like he doesn’t respect my time and it’s giving me second thoughts. Should I stop talking to him and just move on? Any advice would be appreciated. Thanks!
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