How do i lose my virginity?

I’m an 18 year old male, i’m a virgin as the title says and i’ve never been in a relationship. i know losing my v card isn’t necessary to be a man or feel good about myself and everyone has already told me to wait for the right person and that it will happen naturally, but it’s annoying seeing people my age having sex regular and being in relationships frequently. i don’t know where to start i’ve used many dating and hookup apps and i have gotten zero matches, i’m not super attractive but i’m not a bad looking guy just a little chubby, but i take care of myself and my hygiene, i just want to get out there and have fun and experiment but it’s so difficult.