I became a girlfriend faster than I thought (F28)

So, I went on hinge about 2 months ago. It was my first dating app ever and I was just looking to see what was out there. For context, I have been single for about 7 months and my previous relationship was 8 years (and at this point, he had been the only guy I had been with).

I immediately got a lot of matches and have a couple guys I’ve been seeing. One of the guys was very honest about wanting nothing serious but just fun and I was okay with that. I’ve seen him a lot of times and it’s always a good time (you know what I mean).

2 other guys I went on about 3 dates with and both expressed interest in wanting something more. I did fool around with them but didn’t have sex with.

I leaned towards one of the guys more. He’s my age, our schedules align more, and he’s my type. I had finally decided I was going to have sex with him. Right before we get going, he asks me to be his girlfriend.

I was completely shocked. I didn’t expect him to ask me so fast. I’ll admit, in the moment I got super happy and said yes. The night goes on, we have sex and it went good… not great but again we’re just starting to get to know each other in that way.

I will say… as much as I hate to say it. I feel bad saying goodbye to the other guys I had been talking to. They were both super nice and a good time. But I’m not a cheater, will not do that.

Am I a bad person? Is this something that happens to anyone else? I’m feeling a little conflicted. But I am happy he asked me to be his girlfriend.