I got attached to a tinder hookup.

I (19F) lost my virginity on the first date with a guy (24M) in the back of his car. He made me feel safe and respected, we had good chemistry in conversation and he wasn’t pushy whatsoever. The night with him was great, he almost didn’t believe it was my first time, and he said hes open to more because I’m his type.

Since then he told me he really wants to see me several times. He works 2 jobs and is a very busy man, and his job has caused him to flake twice on plans he’s made. I can’t sleep at night, i barely recognize myself. I don’t know if he’s just stringing me along for funsies but i feel like im actually experiencing heartbreak, its ridiculous. Its only been ONE WEEK since we matched, and 5 days since we hooked up, and that was the only time.

The reason I’m still holding on is because his mother apparently knows my name, she walked into his room and he told her “I’m talking to (my name).” he has called me twice (upon my own requests) and we had 2 hour long calls since then. He still hasn’t set a date for the next time we see each other (even after flaking), and he never texts first anymore because he’s sooo busy. He hasnt apologized once. He said he’s not seeing anyone else because he doesn’t have the time, and that his last relationship ended because of this too. Hes also the type of psycho that leaves his phone in a whole different room basically all the time, doesn’t really bother to check texts. I’m just tired and literally losing my mind. Can someone give me a reality check? Am i being dramatic (yes)? What should i do? How do i stop caring so much? Ugh.