If you are a decently attractive or very attractive female, what’s the dating experience like for you on apps?

I guess more specifically

1. Do you just have so many likes and options you can’t keep up? I (M, 32) have a female friend who is 35, and I think she is above average in looks. And she told me she gets so many likes she can’t even keep up with the profiles, and sometimes just doesn’t even look because it’s so overwhelming. Curious to know how true this is.

2. In your experience, what is the dating pool like? Good potential matches? A lot to choose from? Or just absolutely terrible?

I am a 32-year-old straight Male, and I think I’m decently attractive (prob give myself a 6 in terms of looks), and in my years of being off and on with these apps, I never had anything substantial at all. Never a date, conversation, or anything that I thought wow, this might lead to something. It’s literally the same cycle:

“Match with somebody you think is moderately attractive (but probably not your first pick), then there is either no conversation, or ghosted, or unmatch”.

Just curious to see how it is for females out there.

Thanks!