I’m a 27 year old man and went on my first date today.

When I was younger I had a lot of self-esteem and confidence issues that led me to never pursue women seriously, and it led me to having my first ever date today. I feel like I did not do a very good job. It was with a person I already knew so we didn’t need to get to know each other over coffee or anything like that really. We went bowling, however it only took about 45 minutes which I feel like was very short for a first date. But as someone who has no frame of reference I am unsure. I picked her up and dropped her off before and after, for a total of probably an hour and 15 minutes. Is this a normalish (first) date? What can I do better next time? Should I have just taken her for coffee despite us already knowing each other?

For what it’s worth I had fun and it seemed like she had fun.

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