Hey everyone, I could really use some outside perspective. I’ve been talking to this guy I met through mutual friends. We’ve hung out a few times in group settings, and recently we got coffee one-on-one. We talked for a solid two hours great conversation, lots of laughing, and it felt easy.
But I’m confused because:
- He rarely texts me first.
- When I text him, he replies and seems engaged, but it’s not flirty.
- In person, he’s warm, makes good eye contact, jokes around, and seems comfortable with me.
- He hasn’t mentioned anyone he’s seeing, and hasn’t said anything that would hint at romantic interest either.
I’m trying to figure out if he’s just being friendly or if he’s actually interested and maybe just a bit reserved. I don’t want to read too much into it, but I also don’t want to overlook genuine signals.
Should I bring it up directly, or just keep spending time with him and see how things unfold?
Anyone else been in a similar situation?
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