Its been over two years. I dont know if i still have feelings.

I’m 22 and have been in a long-distance relationship with Mia (20) for over 2.5 years. She’s loving and supportive, and we started dating after she got out of a toxic online relationship. Things developed slowly but meaningfully, and I’ve always tried to respect her pace.

Lately, though, I’ve started questioning the relationship—not because of her, but because of my own feelings. She’s my first real girlfriend, and my therapist says doubts are normal, especially in a first relationship. I’ve wondered if I truly loved her or just liked the idea of being loved.

Recently, I met someone new—Tammy, who has a personality and energy that made me feel things I haven’t felt in a while. It made me reflect on what I want in a life partner. Mia is sweet and incredibly talented, but we struggle with communication and mental connection. I often get frustrated by how she processes things, which leads to arguments that feel avoidable.

I’ve realized we might not be a good long-term match, but breaking up is hard because she showers me with affection and love. I feel stuck.

What should I do?