My lack of success in dating is making me increasingly depressed

I’m trying to stay positive. I’ve built a life I enjoy, but the lack of emotional and physical intimacy these past two years is really starting to get to me. I genuinely am starting to worry I’ll be single the rest of my life because of my baby face and the fact that I’m more of a nerdy man than a player. This weekend I’ve been an emotional wreck. It’s affecting my ability to focus at work and my ability to enjoy the things I normally love.