My situationship just said ‘I’m not toxic, you’re just triggered’ after ghosting me again

Been vibing with this girl from Tinder for like 6 weeks. Not official, just chill. But she keeps ghosting for days—then popping back like nothing happened. When I brought it up, she said, “I’m not toxic, you’re just triggered.”

That line has been echoing in my brain. Am I really overthinking this?

Curiosity got the best of me, so I fed the convo into an AI advice thing. It flagged her language as “dismissive deflection commonly found in gaslighting patterns.” That hit like a truck.

Can’t tell if I’m being manipulated or too sensitive. Anyone dealt with this?