When do you tell someone that you can’t have kids?

I am 28 years old and I had a hysterectomy when I was 23 due to endometriosis and adenomyosis. I froze my eggs before my surgery and I have 28 eggs frozen currently. I haven’t been in a relationship and I am wondering when I should tell a guy that I start dating that I can’t have kids. Surrogacy and adoption are my options and I would prefer surrogacy since I went through a pretty traumatic egg retrieval process. I don’t want to tell a guy too early so that I scare them with talk of kids too soon but I also don’t want to wait too long so that they feel like I wasted their time. I want to make sure it’s early enough that I give them “an out” but not too early. I am worried that they will resent me down the line but I am also worried that it will make them not want me at all.

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