Why would a girl be lusting over other men if she is in love ?

My girlfriend, for the last couple of months has had a celebrity crush. She claims she has deep feelings for me (I’m her first love apparently) and that she doesn’t see herself with anyone else long term but me. She has never said the words “I love you” as she is quite conservative and believes that comes within marriage. Not something I entirely disagree with

However the fact that she has a celebrity crush, hurts me. She has made videos on how “majestic” this guy is , has reposted on TikTok things like “needing him or just his videos , has created bookmarks of him to sell on Etsy and the worst of all, has created Pinterest collages of him. The worst thing about the Pinterest collages and the absolute killer is that she has captioned those post as “I love [insert celeb name] and another one captioned “I’m in love with him”

When I have confronted her about it , she has showed regret and apologised. In her words she had said that she only does them for fun or to share them to her friends etc. she has said that she only likes this celebrity for his music and apparently doesn’t think he is handsome 🤔

I confronted her 2 weeks ago and some days I feel at ease whereas on others (like today) I go on a downward spiral of feeling cheated on and feeling not good enough/low self esteem.

I want to get more perspectives from women on why she may have done this despite what she has expressed for me and perspectives from guys on whether this is a relationship I should continue on or not.

Thank you

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